Author: C Malcolm

Tribute to Steven

Board President Diane Brown is inviting everyone to email her a brief written contribution for a Congregational Tribute that will be given to Steven Epperson, after his last sermon. Also please send her one photo of Steven if you have one.

We cannot all gather together at this time, but we can all honour our beloved Steven with our own words and sentiments as he leaves the Sanctuary for the last time on June 21st.

A formal large gathering celebrating his incredible tenure at UCV will take place sometime in the future.

Please use the form below to submit brief written submissions and photos. Submissions must be received by the Deadline:  Monday morning June 15, at 10 am.

UCV’s Fourth Compassion Circle 2020

Do you want to communicate with more compassion and connection? Join UCV’s Fourth Compassion Circle (practicing Compassionate Communication, CC) using the Compassion Course Online 2020 by Thom Bond, (receiving 52 weekly emails covering CC concepts we then practice in the Circle). Registration is required to the online course by May 31, 2020; https://www.compassioncourse.org/ The 2020 Circle’s 1st session will be an introduction by Zoom in June, date TBA. Please contact Cindy Cashin to sign up or for more info.

 

What Participants In Last Year’s UCV Compassion Circle Have Said:

“UCV’s Compassion Circle was born in 2017 in response to enthusiasm of several UCVers taking the online course. Lynn Armstrong coordinated the Circle’s creation and came up with the name. The Compassion Circle is an intimate space for learning together, shifting how we listen and respond to others, and how we communicate with ourselves. It’s a special gathering! “

 

“The Compassion Course and Nonviolent Communication has had a profound impact on me. It is so subtle, yet such a powerful paradigm shift that it changes everything. It has taught me to look deeper in all those difficult communication situations to find the gold that transforms “us and them”  to “we”,  and in so doing it brings such powerful lessons of love and peace.”

 

“I could never have imagined this online course and the practice sessions provided at UCV could have had such a profound impact on my worldview.  It has brought me clarity and a greater understanding of my (and others’) needs.  I’m signing up again and look forward to another year of self-discovery.”

 

“This year has been my introduction to the concepts & practice of compassionate communication. Already I have seen a positive difference in the way I interpret & respond to events & people. I’m signing up again for next year, so that I can go deeper.”

Slack Is Great! (Wait, What Is It?)

On Monday March 30th, I held a zoom meeting for anyone wanting to see why Slack is a great alternative to Google Groups and Microsoft Teams for our committee and small groups communications. I was joined by 13 attendees who were curious to find out the pros and cons to adopting a new communications method.

For those who don’t know, Slack is a communication tool that works like instant messaging, only instead of a single chat window between two people, the conversations (channels) are open to be followed, and added to, by anyone in the workspace. This allows people to have ongoing dialogue in an open and transparent way, according to pre-determined topic categories.

The biggest benefits to adopting slack (in my opinion) are as follows:

    1. Reduces The Volume of Emails Sent and Received – Emails serve a very important purposes but work best when there are a limited number of exchanges or recipients. Some examples of good email communication are letters between friends, requests for information or inquiries, newsletters and updates, and event reminders. Email is not so good for complex organizing or large numbers of recipients. We all know what it is like to get an email thread going, realize someone was left off, then realize another thread has sprung up on the same topic, with different recipients. Slack reduces the number of emails by providing a consolidated place for conversation, planning and organizing.

    2. Allows New People to Have a Look Around – Adding mew members is as simple as inviting them to the Slack work-space and letting them know to have a look through the channels and add themselves to the topics that sound most interesting. This way, a new person can explore the committee correspondence on their own terms, and won’t be automatically spammed with every email going out on the google group. This can encourage new people to get involved without getting overwhelmed.

    3. Tag Me If You Need Me! – In Slack, you can “tag” someone by putting an @ symbol before their name. Slack will notify them when they are mentioned. This feature comes in handy when you need to draw people’s attention to the most salient information that directly relates to them. There are a few other handy features in slack, like the ability to share a google documents or even attach useful email information directly into the chat channels.

    4. Slack has a Simple and Elegant Design – There is a little bit of a learning curve involved but no where near what you might expect. The hardest part is creating an account and knowing where to click, but I can get most people set up in just a couple of days and they’re off to the races. I credit this to Slack’s amazing simple design. Most people immediately see how this tool will provide some relief to a busy and chaotic email inbox.

If you are interested in learning more about Slack, join me again on Monday April 6th, for another zoom show and tell of the Slack app. I will share my screen so you can see what Slack is and does before taking the leap of faith into yet another new application. Trust me! It’s worth taking a peak! Event page: http://vancouverunitarians.ca/events/why-use-slack-communication-tool/

 

Marie Witt is Chair of Communications at UCV, and a lover of technology (when used appropriately!)

Cancel postpone carry on

Check back here for a list of gatherings at UCV that are cancelled or postponed. If postponed, a date will be added here when determined as well as the event listing updated. For now, we’re adding CANCELLED OF POSTPONED in the title of the event, but leaving the date and description so people can check the calendar or eventlist.

Cancelled

Earth Spirit Ostara – Tuesday March 17

Postponed

GSA Film night – April 4

 

 

 

 

 

Soul Matters Themes and Opportunities

You can join other Unitarians on either the first Tuesday 7:30pm (ucv.im/neighbourhoods) or the 3rd Friday at 3pm (ucv.im/wung) for those who live west of Main.

Mary Bennett is coordinating both of these groups, and we expect more groups will be formed. UCV is offering Facilitator training through the Soul Matters organization for anyone interested in sharing a leadership role.

The format for the groups Mary facilitates goes like this:

5 minutes – light a chalice / read a poem

15 minutes – brief check-in related to the theme

25 minutes – groups of 3 in breakout rooms. The facilitator ensures everyone gets a chance to talk and, as much as possible, helps the group complete within the time frame.  Each participant chooses a question from the packet (or makes up or adapts their own question related to the theme). The other two participants respond and then the Asker responds and chooses the person to ask the next question.

10 minutes – closing comment from each person

5 minutes – a closing poem and extinguishing the chalice

2 minute – farewell and bio break

The space remains open for anyone who wants to stay for social chat. If someone has a particular topic they can ask to have a breakout room set up. Those staying on can take a 2-minute break to get refreshments or otherwise deal with bodily needs: stretch etc.

Breakout room facilitators currently are: Mairy Beam (East Van); Mary Lage (Burnaby and Beyond); Paula Vander/Mary Bennett (Westside)

To make it accessible we’ve set an overall limit of one hour. Individuals may form groups that meet at an agreed upon time for a longer period of time. (Some people said they’d prefer an hour and a half).

We will set up 6 break-out rooms, some according to location and others for individual choice. As we make the rooms for people to choose themselves, after there are 3 people in a group, please choose one of the extra groups. If you can’t see the breakout room option, you may need to install or upgrade your zoom app. The host will move you to your preferred room after others have left the main session.

  1. Westside
  2. East Van
  3. Burnaby and Beyond
  4. 5. 6. – Could be for a particular age, interest or team group or just “meet some new people”.

To find these events and others with details and to add to your calendar, go to: http://vancouverunitarians.ca/community/connecting/

UCV has adopted the “Soul Matters” sharing circle subscription which will be used as a resource to guide our small groups and worship over the coming year:

From their website:
The Soul Matters small group approach was developed at the First Unitarian Church of Rochester New York. The idea for a Sharing Circle arose in 2006 when the co-senior ministers, Reverends Scott Tayler and Kaaren Anderson, reached out to a small group of colleagues to explore deeper collaborative relationships. What began as an effort to share materials among colleagues became a means to connect congregations from around the country and world. Today around 1/5 of all UU congregations in the United States and Canada (and a few more in other parts of the world!) participate in this web of interdependence.

To learn more about this unique approach and how it will be used to connect us in group discussion and worship, visit the soul matters website https://www.soulmatterssharingcircle.com/our-approach.html