Tis the Season to be Neighbourly–Connect with Unitarians Near You

New Neighbourhood Groups

We’re (re-)initiating neighbourhood groups for Unitarians around Metro Vancouver.

Probably each neighbourhood group will develop their own ideas about when, where, how and why to meet.

How often do the groups meet?

In terms of frequency, they might decide to meet monthly at a regular time, or, more likely, might decide to meet several times per year. It could be that one or more groups will exist primarily online as an email group that helps people to connect and arrange for get togethers on merely a spontaneous level.

Larger gatherings would need someone/s to make decisions and issue the invitation each time there’s an event, of course. Over time, all those participating would likely take a turn at “hosting” an event. Hosting, however, doesn’t have to be a gathering in your home. It might be a meetup at a coffee shop, arranging a group to attend a film or theatre performance or a dinner out–probably in your neighbourhood.

Are they just social groups or do they have discussions?

Some groups will likely decide to have a focus for discussion; and others might be purely social.

What does the host do?

For each gathering, the host (or hosts) can decide how many people, whether there’s food and if so what, and of course the time and date and focus of the gathering. We encourage people to team up for the host role–perhaps one person has a home that would accommodate a gathering and the other host would send out invitations and take RSVP’s.

Going out together

If it’s a gathering out, the host in that case would make arrangements, take an RSVP list and reserve space and tickets. Possibly they’d help with arranging car pooling.Some theatres (like Firehall) let you reserve tickets for a week without paying and cancel if they’re not taken up. This is a risk-free way to arrange to sit together. And if the group gets larger, most theatres give a discount for 10 or more tickets.

Spontaneous connections

Each neighbourhood group will have an email list, so members can fairly spontaneously connect with each other. This will also help new members at UCV to join and introduce themselves.

In other words, once the Connect & Engage Team helps you connect with those who live in the same area as you, it’s up to you to move forward.

Neighbourhood Email Groups

We have set up email groups to facilitate connection and are encouraging members to host to offer a gathering for these neighbourhoods:

New Westminster

New Westminster and nearby – includes some Beacon members who have/had connections with UCV. Cheryl and Rob will host a gathering in the new year. The group might also take on coordinating a Movable Feast at a restaurant near the New West skytrain station.

Kitsilano/West Point Grey

Kits-West-Point-Grey – Kits-ish people and those further south (Kerrisdale and Dunbar) are also welcome to join us. This group met for the first time in December and has decided on a monthly gathering on the 4th Tuesday of each month. Thanks to Melody for hosting the first one–and now the second one too. Melody’s on the board of BC Civil Liberties and will discuss with the group which of their many initiatives we’ll discuss in January. Eva has initiated a monthly covenant group open to all UCV folk that will be hosted on the westside in members’ homes.

Richmond/ Delta/ Ladner/ White Rock/ South Surrey

Richmond/Delta/Ladner/White Rock/South SurreyDrew and Lynn are helping to get this one going. It’s quite a large area, but just recently someone new to the church met Drew to discover they live fairly close to each other.

East Vancouver

East Vancouver – We have quite a few members in this area so expect something to happen soon. If you’d like to host the first gathering, send a note or just announce it on the email list. Remember. Neighbours sometimes just invite a neighbour to drop in. So while we anticipate that most gatherings will be planned a week or more in advance; other events might be as spontaneous as someone posting something they’re attending and offering to meet up or possibly a ride.

South Vancouver

South Vancouver – Roughly south of 16th or so – Marpole, Oakridge, Kerrisdale, etc. This is the neighbourhood the church is in. Members here might propose an event for a neighbourhood small grant and host it at UCV. (Only individuals can propose, but a free space is entirely OK.) Here’s the link if you’d like to think about something like that.

All neighbourhoods have neighbourhood small grant programs. Events have to occur in the neighbourhood where the residents live. In other words, only the UCV members living in South Vancouver-Collingwood can get a grant and host it at UCV.

Sunshine Coast – Sechelt etc.

Sunshine Coast Unitarians

For Unitarians who reside on Sunshine Coast. UCV member Juergen is hoping to form a group email: membership@ivsi.net Sechelt home: 778 458-2610 (messages can be left)

 

How to join one of the email groups

When asking to join an email group, send your name and your connection to the congregation to the email owners. The groups are set up so “anyone can ask” to join. If you have trouble joining, contact the Connect & Engage Team by email. If your neighbourhood doesn’t yet have an email group, we can help!

Some suggestions on jump-starting your neighbourhood group

Start small

And remember two or three is a group. You can start small and build from there.

Are people outside the neighbourhood welcome?

Hosts are welcome to invite others if they so wish – including friends who aren’t involved in the congregation and other Unitarians who are in other neighbourhoods. Cross-pollination is a good thing. As the intention is to grow connections within a particular area, some events will likely be for residents in that area only unless there is extra space. Inviting friends when there are only a few people attending from the neighbourhood helps build stronger bonds too.

Sharing your event

We recommend that gatherings be put on the website and in the weekly announcements and UCV events so new people (and those who are not on the email list) can know what’s going on. Unlike covenant groups which are closed groups, these are intended to be open groups. Probably each neighbourhood group will eventually have 25-30 people on their email list and 10 or so showing up at any particular gathering. But we’ll see.

If you want support in advertising your event, send the details and we’ll either offer you some advice or perhaps even do it for you.

Summary of who to send info to and when

Send to marcus@vancouverunitarians.ca by Wed noon for the next Sunday’s Order of Service.

Post on the website to have it included in the next month’s email to 500 members and friends. If you can’t post directly, see if someone else in your group would be willing to take on this task. Training available on the first Sunday Compu-Tutor from Paul Prescod.

Send to ucvevents@gmail.com by the 18th of the prior month to have included in the UCV Events publication..


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